ok! i have time, since i am waiting to hear back from my source for the beat article (due tomorrow, heh!). it's unlikely i will be able to turn it in tomorrow without hacking something out in the morning before class and printing it somewhere random, exciting, and costly. oh joy! oh sorrow! oh pain and love.
speaking of pain, sometimes i hate being a girl. hate. it. (PSST. THAT'S THE CODE FOR FEMALE TROUBLES. AREN'T I CLEVER.) seems appropriate for the inauguration of my unofficial girlweek. the only thing that would make this week over-the-top girly is if bjork herself came and propositioned me. or beth ditto, but at least she's, y'know, around. and human. but anyway, it made me unhappy during class, which was bad. cramps suck. i felt rather ill, then i went and used the physics auditorium building's basement restroom, which is huge and nearly always uninhabited, before trooping into the rotunda by work for a little bean and bagel. the bagel was incidental; it sopped up the overcaffeination so i wasn't horribly jittery on top of being hormone-sick.
also, one of my group members told me today she had been looking at my website and that i was witty. hee! out-of-the-blue compliments are cool. i have no idea what she was looking at to get that impression, though. anyway, hi, leah, if you see this. thanks!
hmm. so i glossed over the events of the weekend, but what i neglected to speak about was the freakout of last tuesday. yes, it's week-old news, but hey. or...notnews. anyway.
tuesday after class, i came home and made lunch, ate it, and sat around for awhile. in that time, nearing the hour of bus departure, i began to recall the million things i really needed to be doing soon or i would fail school and fail life and be a failure forever the end. not quite that desperate, actually, but it was a depression/anxiety PLOY which always colors things more extreme than they ought to be. so after telling chris i'd see him on the bus (he gets on several stops before me), i found myself wound into a tight little freakout ball and pacing, unable to force myself out of the house. my roommate said i should just skip. kevin said i should just skip. so...i called chris and said i was skipping. then i emailed heather and said i was skipping. then, i skipped. but not around the room. not to my lou, or even my loo, although i'm sure i made use of said facilities at some point over the course of the afternoon. no, i skipped out on an obligation and made soothing, calming lists of things to not fuck up.
after that, i fucked up. well, i did a little work first, then i fucked up. i decided i NEEDED to leave the house NOW around 3:30, and not to go be alone drinking coffee somewhere. so as soon as i got ahold of kevin, i bussed my freakout ass to ballard and walked forever to his house where he was good and calmed me down. i did some more work by organizing the article due that thursday. i ignored a bunch of phone calls from friends. i didn't go back to the udist until after 11:30. i completely ditched my friends' gilmore girls night without telling them or calling or anything. yes, this was shitty of me. there is no excuse.
the next night, after work, i ran some errands to the bank, safeway, and scarecrow. i stood at the atm, making a deposit, when josie jumped me. i swore at her (using my usual clever derivatives of "fuck") for five loud minutes about how you SHOULD NOT scare people at a FREAKING ATM. she was amused. ha ha funny! then kevin came over and i made burgers and fries and we watched
time bandits, which was cute. whee.
thursday, after the crapness of registration i already mentioned when the frustration was still raw, i worked five straight, mind-numbing hours at imdb, during which time they cracked the 20,000 mark for names+contact info for the pro site. they were thrilled; i was somewhat unmotivated. then i got teriyaki. OH yes. my last standing love affair with animal flesh, and i enjoyed it with christine, who was somewhat unimpressed with her spicy chicken, and josie, who was unhappy with her veggie gyozas which contained mushrooms that looked suspiciously like meat. josie likes neither mushrooms nor meat. josie always seems to want me to provide olives for her pleasure. i hate olives. such conflict.
filling in some THRILLING details...friday was long. i got the veggie dinner special at aladdin's gyrocery, which is so good and so damn much food. deep-fried cauliflower and eggplant, rice, salad with feta, lentil soup that's a fabulous shade of green and spicy, hummus and pita, and a beverage... mm-MM! kevin had a falafel pita with soup. i really need to start doing things with lentils. anyway. then we wasted time and money in second time around. i finally got blondie's
parallel lines lp for $5, as well as a guided by voices cd. then i made him watch
the big lebowski for the first time. he laughed, but then said it seemed to have few things going on for as long as it was. i launched into my overanalysis of this movie i love so well but forced myself to stop because i'm just a nerd.
i want to see
far from heaven.
i am going to san francisco for thanksgiving next week. it's going to be a family gathering for people who have recently lost a family member. this should be a pretty painful holiday, so we're trying to make it suck less. my aunt mary and uncle dick, whose only son, jason, accidentally shot and killed himself last april are possibly joining us for the trip, which would be *really* cool. they are great people. my sister has plans for where she's going to take me, like this crazy store in the castro. i need to do some christmas shopping. i also want to go to an art museum and perhaps go to a show.
this entry has gone on quite long enough. hope it's enough of an update for those of you silently clamoring for an update.